Sure to resonate with Jewish and Gentile readers alike, How to Be a Mentsh (and Not a Shmuck) is a wise and witty self-help manual for pursuing happiness while still acting with integrity, honor, and compassion. Michael Wex, New York Times bestselling author of Born to Kvetch and Just Say Nu , draws on sources that range from the Talmud and Yiddish proverbs to contemporary music and movies in this insightful guide that explores not only human nature and psychology but our duties to ourselves and one another.
Wex, Michael. "How To Be a Mentsh ( & Not a Shmuck), HarperCollins, 2009. Picking a Side Amos Lassen According to Michael Wex, a shmuck is a person who cuts you off in traffic. Here he provides ways so that one will not behave like shmuck. It is a journey on how not to be and it is quite a funny read. It is in actuality a look on how to be human in the world populated by those who are less than human. Wex manages to balance the intellectual with fun. The book is full of things that we can use. It gives us a new way to look at the world and a way to measure how much of a good person we actually are. This is quite a fun read and highly recommended
Not what I expected, but actually much better.
Published by Thriftbooks.com User , 15 years ago
Rather than be a post-ironic riff on a dippy "self help" book, the kind that seem to clog the shelves these day, this tome actually contains news you can use. It may go a long way in explaining every day Jewish morals and ethics to non-Jews without ever sounding too esoteric or pedantic. And it's just as funny and enlightening as his other work, but this time rings a much more substantive note. Wex's scholarship on the issue of how to present yourself as a fully formed person rivals, or surpasses, that of many so called "Bible" scholars that have commented on similar subjects as well. Gets my highest recommendation.
Best book since Carnegie
Published by Thriftbooks.com User , 15 years ago
The best book on the subject since Dale Carnegie's "How to win friends and influence people." This book is a must read on so many levels. First, for social misfits who can't seem to figure out why folks avoid them, and breath mints turn out not to be the answer: Read this. You'll learn why. Dilemmas of the daily kind are solved with historical and cultural details. And for linguists, this book will tell you where your favorite words come from, but not only that, you'll learn why. The book masquerades as a coffee table novelty (read bathroom mainstay), but is in fact a treatise on how to be human in a world of mush heads. It balances beautifully the intellectual with the fun. And if you start with this, you won't want to miss Born to Kvetch. For Jews and Gentiles alike. Nope, I'm not paid to write this. These books are simply great.
Another great book from Mr. Wex
Published by Thriftbooks.com User , 15 years ago
This book has actually already had an influence on my life. First of all, I love the cover. The retro colors and design are amazing and fit the contents of the book, which has actually helped me already to solve some issues I've had with some frenemies of mine. The book takes you through a journey of "how to be" in the world. Like, how to live among other people. But its NOT a self-help book at all. Its actually a hilarious read from start to finish. Its the kind of book you can give your teenager's teachers to use in class, because it combines humor with etymology with Jewish history. I was amazed at how much I loved it. Well, not totally amazed. I read Born to Kvetch too after hearing Terry Gross interview Michael Wex on NPR and loved that and gave it to lots of my friends as a gift. This book is a wonderful sequel to that, the connecting points being Jews, language and lots of fun. I am also really impressed with Mr/ Wex's knowledge of history and Jewish ethics. I will buy a bunch of these as gifts this year, for sure.
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