How to Have Your Way with Men

This is a positive book that offers so much relief to worry and stress about what is happening in relationships. I have read other relationship books geared for women about getting their way with men and they stress me out. They are about manipulation and games and a lot of the suggestions do not solve anything, instead often making more resentment toward men and relationships. In these other books, suggestions were often unnatural and made me feel like I do not have the power or skill to do that.I love this book. It is incredibly insightful, intuitive and real. I have not seen these insights anywhere else. I can finally understand what is happening in my man's mind and see that he is not so bad after all! He is normal, even though I never suspected that he would be normal in any way. It was like this book was written for me from start to end and I have had many of those, "Ah, now I see!" moments. This book breeds a healthy, wholesome relationship. Understand ambivalence! This book is like a foregin language interpreter and it empowers you to take action, but not by risky tricks like not calling him. That may or may not be necessary, but there is more to it! Understand what you need to do and why, not just doing something because it is a "rule" someone wrote that is supposed to help you. There truly are differences that are inherent between men and women. It is not a bad thing to recognize that, as another reviewer said. Yes, each man is unique and each woman is unique, but I believe that these principles apply to most people. They are not difficult principles to understand, but it does take patience and work to apply them. It is written for well-established relationships and new relationships.Now about the style of writing: At first I was frustrated when reading this book because it is not a smooth read. Some sentences are worded strangely and there are many grammatical errors. Ignore them! The content and what is actually being said are well worth it. I can't say much for your grammatical errors, but thank you, Anthony Badalamenti.

This book helped me to see opportunities for love with men that were always there but passing me by. The author, a male, did a good job revealing how men often tell me they want me but in ways I was missing. I think there are gender differences no one talks about except this author. He gives exercises to wake up feelings and ways that are more in men than women. They made the whole book come to life for me and then I saw that men were making me better offers than I realized.

Good book. There's a lotta love in men and it's not true that they just think with their, uh, you know. I learned that men give and get messages in different ways from ours. True, they don't get our messages but we don't get many of theirs. There are surprises in this book. Like how men understand things better when they are put into action and why they usually miss our meanings. I'm gonna read it again!

I was surprised that a man could write a book like this. The author understands what a woman's feelings mean to her. He also understands that most men just don't get it when it comes to our feelings. The surprise is that there are things that women just don't get about men. His book is full of eye opening material on how men see women and how men can take a different meaning from the one we meant. I found the exercises very helpful in getting me to understand how men see women and where they look for our meanings. I plan to keep doing his exercises from time to time because they help me to see things from a male point of view and not just my own.