Barbara Keesling, Ph.D., is the author of Talk Sexy to the One You Love, How to Make Love All Night   and Sexual Pleasure. She has taught human sexuality and psychopathology at several southern California universities.
"What is the one word that is pivotal to female sexuality? Control.What I'm saying is this: Women want to have control of their sexual energies. They want to fully enjoy every scintilla of their lovemaking, from sensual caressing to supersonic climaxes, and once you discover the magic of Super Sexual Orgasm, you will be able to decide if you want to have your explosive climax at the beginning of intercourse or wait till your partner is on the verge of orgasm or have multiple explosive orgasms or have it all All of this is available to you. You will have the control. Isn't this what you want?" -- Barbara Keesling, Ph.D.