Three centuries ago, people flocked to St. Francis de Sales, seeking his help for their problems. St. Francis spent countless hours ministering to them face-to-face and wrote over 20,000 letters From these letters to persons in many countries and in all walks of life, we've selected the ones which will be most helpful to you today.
Each is a hand-written response to someone like you seeking help with an actual problem. You'll be consoled by the warmth, the wisdom, and the holy sympathy you'll find in these pages as the love of this great saint reaches out to us across the centuries. Whatever your circumstances may be, there's wisdom here to make your life holier . . . and happier.
Wisdom for difficult situations . . .
To a pious wife: how to be devout without irritating your husbandTo an old man, preparing for deathTo a woman who judges herself harshlyTo a woman distressed by her lack of spiritual progressTo a newlywed, teaching the duties of married life and how to fulfill themTo a new widow who finds life alone a terrible burdenTo a young man, showing him how to treat his parents betterTo a nun, on placing ourselves in the presence of GodTo a married woman trying to bear patiently her live-in parents-in-lawTo a pregnant woman, tired, sick, and discouraged, who thinks she doesn't pray enoughTo a childless woman, helping her to accept this sorrowTo a priest, on staying faithful to his callingTo a nervous woman, showing her how to be less troubledTo a woman troubled by sinfulness in the worldTo a businessman, showing him how to find God in his busy lifeTo an overworked woman. . . plus help for dozens of other problems we all faceSolutions to common troubles . . .
Family problems -- how to keep calm, and even use troubles to improve your familyAnxiety about the future: your job, your children, anything at all. It can be overcome Your flaws -- the right response to them. Plus, ways to bear those you can't overcomeFamily, work, prayer: which should come first? How to set your prioritiesThree criteria for judging pastimes. Do you really know which are spiritually healthy and which are dangerous?Helplessness: coping when you're not in control, especially during times of sickness or lonelinessThe roots of heresy -- why you must understand Scripture in light of Church teachingsTemptation and sin: how to turn them into spiritual victories