We Used to Own the Bronx tells the story of a woman born into the proprieties of an East Coast dynasty who nevertheless leaves her world of privilege for a career as an investigative reporter. Recounting her upbringing, Eve Pell offers an inside look at the bizarre values and customs of the American aristocracy, from debutante balls and the belowstairs hierarchy of the servant class to the fanatical pursuit of blood sports and private men's clubs whose members were cared for like sultans. In the patriarchal world of the upper crust, girls were expected to flatter and defer to boys and men: her scholar-athlete sister was offered a racehorse if she would refuse to attend college. A parade of eccentrics populates the book, from the cockfighting stepfather who ran away from boarding school with a false beard and a stolen motorcycle to the Brahmin great-uncle who secretly organized the servants in Tuxedo Park to vote for Teddy Roosevelt. But as she moved beyond the narrow world she was expected to inhabit, Pell encountered people and ideas that brought her into conflict with her past. Equally unconventional are the muckrakers and revolutionaries she met in the 1960s and 1970s, and her subsequent adventures and misadventures while working with radical activists to reform the California prison system. As Pell traces her absorbing journey from debutante to working mother, from the upper crust of the East Coast to the radical activists of the West, from a life of wealth and privilege to one of trying to make ends meet, she provides exceptional insight into the prickly and complex issues of social class in America.
Format:Hardcover
Language:English
ISBN:1438424973
ISBN13:9781438424972
Release Date:February 2009
Publisher:Excelsior Editions/State University of New Yo
Very fascinating book about the world of the very wealthy
Published by Thriftbooks.com User , 15 years ago
It is a very revealing book about someone who is born into privilege and how they think. It all goes back to their ancestors who are raised by nannies and servants and that they rarely see their own parents except for being presented at tea time, etc. The parents really don't want them to work but be very competitive at sports and go to many parties all the time. I know the author as a "runner" and since her "awakening" into the middle class world and always believed her to be one of us. It was so interesting to read her story about her background and how she changed her views.
Fascinating autobiography, wonderfully written
Published by Thriftbooks.com User , 15 years ago
Most of us of will never see inside the world into which Eve Pell was born, as described elsewhere in these reviews. The story of her gradual personal evolution from a privileged upbringing among three of the wealthiest enclaves in America through radical journalist to suburban housewife sounds like a film script (note to Ed Pressman: sign up Jane Fonda now!), but few could write this better. This is a primarily a story about relationships and the realities of life for women of Eve's generation (born just before World War II) with the added complexity of the effects, both positive and negative, of her family's wealth and social position. You cannot help but have great empathy for someone who is so honest about herself, sharing her most intimate experiences, aspirations, fears and feelings. Her struggle to assert her independence coincided with '60s radicalism; her insulated background seemed to have left her naive regarding the motives of those she became involved with during her personal transition. She paid a price, but seems to have found strength in living independently at last. Winning the Dipsea race (if you are unfamiliar with it, you might Google it) certainly gives credibility to her personal strength and tenacity. She tells the story so well that the book is very difficult book to put down. Highly recommended.
From Myth to Reality:One Woman's Fascinating Journey
Published by Thriftbooks.com User , 15 years ago
It is said that if you want the emotional truth of an era, read a novel, not a history book. In this day and time, a great memoir is a combination the two. In Eve Pell's "We Used to Own the Bronx: Memoirs of a Former Debutante," there is deep emotional truth that shatters the myths of the frivolous fifties, as well as the radical idealism of the sixties. An award-winning journalist, Pell is an intelligent, insightful, and courageous woman who fought hard for reality in the world around her and in her personal life. We, as readers, are lucky she was willing to share her journey.
Radicalizing Eve Pell
Published by Thriftbooks.com User , 15 years ago
We used to be neighbors, but I've only met Eve Pell a few times. After reading her `We Used to Own the Bronx' I feel that I've know her for ever. Her story is illuminating exposé of one of the most prominent early families in the country: wealthy as Croesus, but with all that privilege there was an unhealthy dose of tension. Eve takes us on her compelling journey from a life of servants and horses to elite schools to life as a socialite to radical activist and award winning journalist. Along the way, she found time to become a first-rate, long-distance runner. We get `skinny' on the Edwardian era leisure class with its obscure rules and prejudices that tend to insulate them from the real World but which can backfire causing angst, divorce, alcoholism and suicide. Couldn't put it down...
Smart, articulate and witty....all the way through...
Published by Thriftbooks.com User , 15 years ago
.....I stayed up late into the night to finish Ms. Pells book. I absolutley love the way she writes! She drew me into a world I'd never been, took me to places I'd never seen and then made me think, as a great writer does, about what I'd just read. Clearly, incredibly researched, Ms. Pells book is smartly written...and with clarity and wit, she's able to put her dymanic upbringing into perspective for the reader and for herself and then take us on a 'trip' through the '60's and her coming out as a young, brave and talented journalist. I could read anything that she writes!
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